On Sunday, October 28 when many across the country were praying for Susan to find peace and to let God bring her home, she passed through the doorway of the mansion in heaven that was prepared for her.
Is she gone from us? No way.
Susan's work lives on in each and every victim of violence that she figured out how to save, it goes on through each case she offered her expertise that got the attention it needed to make progress, she lives on through each friend who touched her life and to whom she gave so freely. Although her shoes can never be filled, her work will continue.
All of us have a favorite memory, picture and story about Susan. Please feel free to leave your words here in the comment section.
Memorial announcements will be made for a time in the future.
......Delilah
I love you and I can feel your mother holding you. Delilah. . . thank you so much and may God Bless and be with you. In Jesus Holy Name I pray. ~MD
ReplyDeleteSusan got her promotion to heaven and will receive the rewards she so richly deserves. We are all sad because we will miss her but I know without a doubt I will see her again one day. That's God's promise to us.
ReplyDeleteThank you Delilah, my precious friend for all you have done and will continue to do. Susan could never have asked for a better friend. My prayers will continue for you and all of Susan's friends.
Billie
I'm so sorry she's gone..my favorite memory is that she inspired so many to not give up. I never met her but her courage was a strength for us all going thru domestic violence situations and she fought to believe in us when so many people don't and won't. Life won't be the same without her. I find myself asking God why, altho I know Gods will is perfect I still don't always understand His ways. Please Lord help to fill the gap of pain for Susans loss but also fill the gap for what seems like a losing battle against victims of violent crimes of abuse. Let us do what we can and use us for what the people need. In Jesus name I pray amen.
ReplyDeleteNow she is at peace at the right Hand of our Lord. To her Family and Friends: I'm sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you.
ReplyDeleteShe is one of the people who inspired me to put so much effort into helping victims of domestic violence.
She will be missed.
No words at this time, only tears :( Fly free, Susan. Blessings to you, Delilah, for being such a good friend & source of strength for her during the worse time of her life. Hugs, Tracey
ReplyDeleteMay she and her friends and family find peace. Thank you for sharing her story.
ReplyDeleteCondolences to the family
ReplyDeleteEven though I spoke with her briefly but known her for 4 years
Susan is an inspiration and I will do my part in sharing her legacy
RIP
Alan
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While I am grateful Susan left this world peacefully, My heart is heavy. Susan was a woman who didnt know the words "I'm too busy" or "I don't have time" The mere mention of an upcoming event for a missing person and she sprang into action promoting, speaking about it, doing a radio show and offering guidance or her attendance. The lives she has touched are forever changed. Rest Well Susan.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you Delilah, sending you Big Hugs and Lots of Love! Thank You for holding Susan's hand to Heaven. Delilah, You are one Beautiful Earth Angel girl friend. If you need anything that I can help with, please don't hesitate, I'm there. xoxoxox
ReplyDeleteI take this news with many mixed emotions... On the one hand, realizing that especially the last few weeks Susan suffered in her departure....as did Delilah and Jane and all of her friends, and supporters. On the other hand, there is an incredible sense of relief that she has passed to her eternal home of peace and joy with many she loves.... What a reunion that will be!
ReplyDeleteThere are many personal habits I can now put away knowing that the constant vigilance is no longer needed, as Susan is in the best possible hands now. She was also in the best possible hands one earth given her situation medically and personally.... We can never, never underestimate the power of the human spirit- her spirit, Delilah's as caretaker, Dr. Akoury's spirit of healing...This is an experience that will never leave any of us... I personally have learned so much that will be useful, as I forge my path and try to continue her legacy...
As for grieving...we all have to work through it in out our way. One attempt on my part will be to continue to work closely with all of her colleagues and friends, getting support from the collective efforts. Another is a new blog just written called, "The End of Life Journey" which may be therapeutic for others too once posted...
I hearken back to her earlier comment on my radio show that, "In the past two years, I have never felt so loved." I take comfort in that and know that I was a small part.
We can keep her alive in our hearts by continuing the much needed work with the EAA, her memoir and other books, trying to see her curriculum to fruition...and listening to her many radio shows on archives and reading her journal.
I will close with the quote I used in the blog written for "Shattered Lives" which is so true to who Susan was...
"If you wait to do everything until you're sure it's right, you'll probably never do much of anything," Win Borden
In Peace and Love for Susan,
Donna "Ladyjustice"
This world has truly lost a strong advocate. Fly the heavens, Susan, and rest in the arms of the Lord. Prayers for all who love and will miss Susan. I know I will certainly miss our conversations and seeing the great work she has done for many. May she continue her work from above, guiding those below.
ReplyDeleteFly with angels Susan. You have a peace inside we all crave here on earth. Your unfaltering determination to help those abused will continue. Going to miss your actual voice so incredibly much. But your voice of wisdom will be heard forever.
ReplyDeleteI am sure she is running head first into her next project in Heaven and feels light on her feet and is in no more pain. I think of her bright smile again and (thanks to Amy Matthews) I WILL remember what she taught me. God Bless you all.
ReplyDeleteWe share your loss and send you our deepest sympathy.
ReplyDeleteI remember when I first spoke to Susan on the phone I was pleasantly surprised with her "tenacity" as she held my hand through family court hell, I knew she was one of "us". I will forever miss you my friend and be forever in your debt for guiding and sometimes pushing me in the right direction. You were a jewel among a sea of junk and I am so glad I found you.
ReplyDeleteI grieve because I'm selfish. I rejoice because you have found peace. I smile because your fight willl continue in the work which you have prepared so many to carry forward. You can rest now in your mother's arms, in the presence of our father in heaven, as the angels rejoice and welcome you. How appropriate that it is the end of DVAM. Goodbye Susan. I love you.
ReplyDeleteLisa Hyatt
RIP dear angel. You were one of a kind and you will be a one of akind angel.. You are not gone just passed to the eternal kingdom. Please watch over me and send strength to continue the battle against the dark forces. I love you sister. I know that you are still here just in a different form. I'm sure that I will hear you whispering in my ear when I need it most just like you did when I was battling cancer last year. Fly high and Godspeed.
ReplyDeleteI am so glad she is no longer suffering. Her story and her work touched me early in my own recovery and healing. And I keep meeting people who have also been touched by her. Most recently, I met Daleen Berry, also a DV survivor and author. Daleen shared with me how Susan had an energy and passion that was infectious and powerful. Now, as an angel, Susan has an even greater reach. At least that's how I prefer looking at it. :)
ReplyDeleteDear Susan,
ReplyDeleteYou've touched all of our lives and we will not forget you. Enjoy your well-earned rewards. You've helped so many here on earth, you deserve a castle in the sky.
Thank you for all your help, Susan. You will be missed. Your work will live on forever. Peace and blessings with you, Delilah.
ReplyDeleteA tireless advocate, a dear friend, and inspiration for all. Peace and love always. Your legacy is long and deep; I hope we all do you proud as you watch from above.
ReplyDeleteI am heart broken. Susan and I talked often about our mothers. Hers and mine. She believed where i did not.
ReplyDeleteYesterday, Susan went to her Mother on the same day my mother went to heaven. 4 years later.
Shaking and in tears, Susan, I believe baby. I will meet you again my dear friend.
I said, shared all I needed to with Susan with no time lapse; it will forever be burned in the memory and one that will always make me smile. Thank you for the belief you set in others, forthwith to overcome tragedies but most importantly in oneself. I am grateful to have been her friend.
ReplyDeleteDelilah my heart goes out to you now for the courage you showed as you stood with her during this last battle. Susan was truly an Angel given to us for awhile who has now been called to return home. The tools she has left to the world and the lives she has touched during her journey on earth, will be passed on for decades to come. Sadly missed and forever thankful to have known such an amazing woman, prayers will be shared but not enough words can be spoken to ease the loss at this time. Susan rest knowing you have made magic on earth and will be known as a tgrue justice seeker for those who had no voice. trish
ReplyDeleteI only spoke to Susan a couple of times but I'll never forget when we were on the phone a few minutes before doing her blogtalk radio show. I told her that I was nervous and not comfortable at all with being on the air. She said that she started out being scared to speak as well, but got over it by keeping in mind how it important it was for what you wanted to say to be heard.
ReplyDeleteGood advice. Thank you, Susan.
Such very sad news, but Susan gave a lot to so many during her time here; may we all follow her example.
ReplyDeletePat Brown
My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Susan at this time of loss.
ReplyDeleteShe touched many lives, leaving her mark even if it was the briefest of touches, reading her blog, listening to her shows, meeting her in person.
Each of us who had the pleasure of knowing her carry forth her torch, shining brightly for those victims who are surrounded by darkness, that they can come forth without fear and find justice, comfort, love and support.
The time you shared with us was precious yet you gave freely of it, for this we are thankful.
Thankyou for being you Susan, your part in the story of life is over, the story however will carry on with new people, new chapters and, i believe many happy endings.
Thank you Delilah for being there for her on our behalf, for the love and comfort and peace you brought to her as she took her final steps from this life.
Think not of what might have been, remember instead what was.
Do not cry for the future, laugh and smile at the past,the good times shared.
Tears of happiness are the best way to remember those who leave us not tears of sorrow.
Hugs you tight Delilah and rest in peace Susam
You did good Honey. xx
Delilah, what a friend you must have been. Having such a close relationship with a friend is something so many would never know about. I have such and have been blessed to hold her hand through a bought with breast cancer a death of her husband. You will be rewarded for your kind deeds to walk with her on her ending journey. I have tried reading all the blogs and I still (like so many others I am sure) would like to know if her son and sister returned to be by her side before she spread her wings. As long as we have our memory we will always have our friends! Bless you and her closest friends in the days to come!
ReplyDeleteI personally dident no susan but I do know she did many wonderfull things for dear friend of mine she was a god given and heaven sent susan go fly with the angels may you find a garden of joy and peace with our lord rest in peace susan love kac
ReplyDeleteDelilah.thank you for unselfishly holding Susan up, and holding her hand through this time. She was, and remains, a remarkable woman, touching so many in ways most cannot comprehend. Peace to you, and with Susan..
ReplyDeleteGod Bless You Susan! You were an advocate who briefly touched my life in person..but was always there for me..answering my phone calls..and encouraging me to do the right thing against the monsters that raged in my life. I am humbled to have met her. God Bless You Susan! Peace and Love I pray for you and your family. Maribeth Bell
ReplyDeleteI want to thank you Delilah for taking such good care of my good friend Susan. I only wish I lived closer so I could have helped.
ReplyDeleteSusan was an advocate for victims of domestic violence. She and I talked often about how lonely advocacy work can be. And even a bit scary at times.
I believe that Susan realized before she left us just how many people did appreciate her and her work. That makes it a little easier to deal with the pain of losing such a good friend.
Susan, I will miss you!! I am certain that you have entered into Heaven to be reunited with your mom - your inspiration.
I love you!
Isabelle
As having lived with Susan for the last two years, I have witnessed the long hours with the lights burning, telephone calls, pacing while talking to a victim for hours to help them. She worked 24/7 until she fell ill. You are now an angel in heaven and out of your pain. Your work will continue on through those who love you and those you have helped.
ReplyDeleteThank you Susan for the opportunity to know you!
You are loved,
Jane
Being a Stage 4 cancer survivor I can only tell you the family that her pain is gone for eternity. The battle fighting cancer is one of agonizing pain much of the time. I am so sad that this advocate of an angel is gone from our earth, but can not feel sorrow knowing where she is. To the surviving family know that God has placed her in charge of watching over you now, live life, stand strong in what she taught you and be proud.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless to you all.
Tracker
Thank you Delilah for taking care of my dear friend! Susan, take your rest Baby, you deserve it. This is very painful and I can hear you say; "Stop it, stop it"...(smile). I will, with time. I know you are O.K. and bugging God for some assignment; Pass out wings, help check the list in the Lambs Book....this makes me smile. I Love you eternally Susan and will truly miss you.
ReplyDeleteMy prayers are with you Delilah and all those who were blessed to be touched by Susan.
Wanda